MURAL FAQS
How does one join?
In greater Johannesburg, call Bearnard O’Riain on 082 342 2864.
or email via their website: www.muralhelp.co.za
When do MURAL meet? Once a fortnight at the moment on
Thursday evenings from seven o’clock to nine
o’clock. However, individuals meet between meetings to discuss individual
problems.
Where? In one of the counselling
rooms in the grounds of the Bryanston Methodist Church on Grosvenor Road,
Bryanston, Johannesburg.
Does it cost anything? No.
Q: What is unique about MURAL?
A: Well, you can imagine for a start that they share
experiences and they meet in a safe private place. They share the grief and
heartache and they do not judge each other.
As they have all been there, they can relate to each other’s stories, good and
bad.
This gives them credibility.
So, they have the same purpose and they mentor each other when appropriate. They
hear each other’s progress, failures and successes, ask questions, steer, advise
– not tell – each other.
They practise the skills of listening and asking questions about what is and is
not working.
Where it is appropriate they point each other towards other forms of help, e.g.
FAMSA or psychologists. Finally, they are determined to break the cycle of bad
behaviour.
Q: We are asked if our group is in competition with
Psychologists and counselling organisations like FAMSA or Life Line or Sonke Gender Justice?
A: No, MURAL is complementary to or additional to other sources of help. Members of MURAL regularly obtain help from the above also.ong>
Is MURAL approved by other counselling organisations?
Yes. Here is what Liz Dooley, the head of FAMSA, says:
"At last a group of men who want to break the cycle of violence that is destroying not only themselves but the very people they love.
It requires courage, patience and commitment and with support and encouragement, the members of Abusers Anonymous will help you to walk the long road to recovery.”
Liz Dooley,
Family Life Centre. 011 788 4784
www.familylife.co.za
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